Thursday, December 1, 2011

To be (anonymous) or not to be


Thomas Paine had a good reason for publishing
Common Sense anonymously—he could
have been killed for writing it.
This morning, irwinb posted the following comment (in part) on the latest missive from Jim Mageau:

“… I don't believe that you (or CCA) should allow comment postings from "anonymous" sources. When I read a comment, I want to know who wrote it, so that I can evaluate the comment and its source. If some one doesn't have the courage to disclose their name, then don't allow their comment. I hope you will change your protocol for blog postings.” [posted at 10:42 a.m.]

Irwinb of course makes an excellent point. When I first starting commenting here on Progressive Charlestown, I didn’t want to be anonymous because I felt that commenting on a “hyperlocal” blog would be a good way to get to know my neighbors. Little did I realize that by being one of the few people to comment publicly, I’d get roped into writing for the blog … but that’s a whole ‘nuther story.

By Linda Felaco

Then I saw today’s article in Slate by Katie Roiphe analyzing the phenomenon of the angry commenter. Sure, she points out, “there is a long tradition of inspired cranks [methinks perhaps she’s met Jim Mageau—Ed.] and interested retirees who have always written letters to the editor, but something in the anonymity and speed and stamplessness of the Internet has unleashed a more powerful and uncontrolled vitriol.” Commenters get “angry at the encroachment on [their] time by the offending article,” as though they’d been strapped to a chair with wires holding their eyelids open à la Malcolm McDowell in A Clockwork Orange and forced to read it.

But why should this be? Of course not everyone will agree with everything they read, but why has disagreeing with the message for some people come to require actively hating and insulting the writer?

Then there are the commenters who get angry at the angry commenters. Is this what socializing has been reduced to, Roiphe asks? 

“As one non-angry commenter writes to some other angry commenters: “I'm sorry your life is so empty that you find it necessary to try and pick fights with random strangers on the Internet.”

Roiphe concludes, a tad generously I suspect, that the angry commenters are in fact normal, decent people in their daily lives and that comment sections perhaps perform a vital civic function in allowing people a safe place to vent their ugliest thoughts. This would argue for allowing anonymous comments.

Roiphe’s conclusion is borne out by a sportswriter who went on the warpath and actually tracked down and confronted some of the haters, who, as it turned out, were largely just looking to get a reaction from the “famous writer.” One even turned out to be the stereotypical young adult living in his mother’s basement.

"It's about consequences, and not suffering from any," says Jacqueline Whitmore, an etiquette expert and founder of etiquetteexpert.com. "There are absolutely no repercussions to writing a nasty comment or e-mail, so people feel they can vent at will. They never think that the person receiving the message might be a real human being."

I’ll confess to occasionally being guilty of this myself. I have a tendency to make flip remarks without always considering how they’ll be received. I’ve also noticed that I’m far more polite with commenters who sign their names, even when I disagree with them. That’s one of the strongest arguments against allowing anonymous comments; using names promotes civility.

Yes, believe it or not, we here at Progressive Charlestown are real human beings. Real human beings who read and react to each and every comment written, even if we don’t inflict all of them on the rest of our readership. Real human beings who take great care with what we write, although being real human beings also means we won’t always get it right. When we do get something wrong, I would hope that people will make the effort to let us know rather than just tune us out.

Then again, we do put our names on what we write, so we feel no obligation to publish anonymous comments and the self-righteous indignation when we don’t rolls right off. As for the name-calling, as the kids say, “Sticks and stones …” To me, name-calling says more about the caller than the callee.

So where do I stand on anonymous comments? Sure, I’d like it if everyone felt comfortable signing their comments, if for no other reason than that when there are multiple anonymous comments on a single story, it gets hard to figure out how many people are commenting. Unfortunately, there are people in this town with hidden agendas and axes to grind who make other people hesitant to give their names. And no, I’m not talking about Jim. I think one of the worst things he’s done is provide cover for people with hidden agendas and axes to grind, who use him as a boogeyman excuse not to use their names.

Oh, and as Will wrote the other day, go ahead and Google me. Be sure to use quote marks so you get exact results. You’ll get even better results with me than Will because unlike him, I’m the only Linda Felaco in all of North America. You’ll see pretty quickly that I’ve always been opinionated and am not some babe in the woods in thrall to Will Collette and his radical left-wing ideology. LOL.