A
rare piece of effective conflict resolution
By
Will Collette
At least the school wasn't selling advertising on the sign At least not yet - click here And if the Chariho budget doesn't pass, who knows? |
Lots of neighborly disputes end up being filed as complaints with Charlestown Police or state agencies. Our town Housing Officer gets a steady stream of zoning complaints that often result from personal feuds.
Then there’s the recent anonymous complaint to DEM that briefly killed Charlestown’s New Year’s Eve bonfire.
Such
a battle could have – but didn’t happen – over the flashing LED lights that
were installed at the Charlestown Elementary School some months ago with money
raised by the local Parent-Teachers Organization.
These lights flashed messages 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Sometimes it was a message for students and parents about something they needed to know or do. Sometimes it was a message for the general public about some event at the school. Sometimes the message was of no consequence at all and was simply up there so that the LED sign would say something, anything.
Flashing
LED lights are designed to be attention-grabbers. They are designed to be bright.
And when they are on 24/7, they are not only consuming energy but they are also
annoying the community. Plus, they are an in-your-face violation of
Charlestown’s dark-sky friendly lighting
ordinance.
That
they were placed and operated at all showcases the point I had made throughout
the dark sky ordinance drama – Charlestown’s ordinance was, and still is,
ineffective and unenforceable.
This
episode also reinforces another point I had argued – that it’s
possible to arrive at amiable compromises that protect our sky views without causing
rancor.
It
took $320. As it turns out, it was fairly easy for the electrician who
installed the LED lights to go back into the system and install a timer switch.
Now the lights go off automatically at 10 PM and back on at 6 AM. The $320 was
drawn from Charlestown’s building maintenance fund.
Wouldn’t
it be great if Charlestown residents would consider simpler, more direct
approaches to resolving their conflicts, rather than trying to get their
neighbors busted for small signs, or getting pliable members of the Town
Council to enact
new ordinances to punish a neighbor over a parking dispute?
Let’s
stop the harassment complaints to the Housing Official, Animal Control,
Wastewater or the Police. In any community, people are going to get on each
other’s nerves – certainly I am a case in point – but there’s a right way and a
wrong way to settle grievances.
And
usually you can get off even cheaper than $320, although in this case, $320 was
an incredible bargain to avoid a multi-party donnybrook pitting Carolina
residents versus the PTO and Charlestown versus Chariho.