Beyond Shame and Blame
Frances Moore Lappé for Common Dreams
Afterall, free-market mythology, politically popular since the
1980s, has led us to believe that humans are essentially selfish creatures,
eager to put ourselves first. Yet, Trump’s many policies that harm the vast
majority of us do not seem to diminish his appeal.
Before puzzling over “why,” here are a just a few examples
of party differences that one might think would have brought the truly self-interested
to abandon Trump and jump on the Democratic bandwagon.
On Social Security. Trump remains ambiguous, failing to provide any
specific measures on how he would protect Social Security. In contrast,
Democrats promise not only to protect but to strengthen benefits, including—if
needed to cover the cost—raising taxes on those earning more than $400,000.
They have also expressed support for raising benefits for low-income recipients
and improving Social Security’s cost-of-living adjustment formula.
On taxes. The 2017 Republican tax reform was skewed to benefit the rich and Trump now proposes reducing taxes on capital
gains. Democrats, however, seek to expand tax credits for workers and families and
to increase tax rates on wealth for corporations and
individuals.
On the minimum wage. Trump says he would consider raising it but prefers to leave the decision to states. The Democrats pledge an increase, underscoring that the minimum wage has not risen since President Obama and still only brings the worker to the poverty line.
On abortion. Trump promised in 2016 to appoint Supreme Court justices who
would overturn Roe v. Wade. He also appointed abortion opponents to the federal judiciary,
including three Supreme Court justices who voted to overturn the federal right
to abortion. However, Democrats support women’s right to choose, as do two-thirds of Americans.
On education. As president, Trump called for
eliminating the Public Service Loan Forgiveness initiative and
ended loan forgiveness for students defrauded by their
schools.
In contrast, President Biden’s 2021 American Rescue Plan—the
largest one-time investment in education—helped schools
reopen and regain ground faster.
On healthcare. Trump calls Medicare “socialism” and supports appealing or overturning the
Affordable Care Act in favor of a private market. He also supports spending caps and work requirements on
Medicaid. With these changes, certain low-income populations, pregnant women,
and people with disabilities would lose Medicaid coverage. Democrats support the Affordable Care Act and Medicaid as a
federal program.
On climate. Trump has promised to roll back regulation of the fossil fuel
industry in exchange for $1 billion in campaign contributions. Under
Biden’s presidency, carbon emissions fell by 2 percent even as the economy grew, and his
administration is devoting $2 billion to encourage electric vehicles.
On immigration. Trump declared an “illegal immigrant invasion, the worst
that’s ever been seen anywhere in world.” Yet, between 2020 and 2022 the
percent of foreign-born grew just one point, reports the U.S. Census Bureau. Between 2019 and 2023, our
immigrant-labor force grew yearly on average 2.3 percent; yet there’s no evidence of harm to the native-born, as our economy
has also been growing. Thus, for U.S.-born workers, 2022-2023 was a time of
“very low unemployment—and strong employment growth,” notes the Economic
Policy Institute. Plus, job growth continues to exceed expectations.
Hmm. If on policy questions, direct self-interest seems to
take a back seat, what is shaping today’s highly charged
political divergence that might be less obvious?
Our free-market mythology teaches us that anyone worth their salt can make
it if they try. So, those who don’t are, well, either too lazy
or too stupid. From that root myth, it is easy to grasp why those at the lower
rungs of the economic ladder can feel shame. I know I’d be vulnerable, too.
But we also know enough about our nature to realize that
shame is perhaps the most painful of human emotions. We can cope with loss,
anger, and embarrassment…but shame? Hmm, it hits hard. So, what can we do to
evade that terrible feeling?
Well, there seems to be one easy, effective way: Blame.
As long as we can blame “the other,” we can find some
solace. Feeling oneself to be a victim isn’t great, of course, but it’s
definitely preferable to shame. For one, we can enjoy self-righteousness and
create bonds with others based on common grievances.
Another plus? We don’t have to be troubled by coming up with
solutions ourselves, including how to tackle profound economic inequality. Note that worldwide in income inequality, the
U.S. is ranked more extreme than 115 countries, while most of
our peers come in far above us in the top 50.
Acknowledging our standing and coming up with solutions is
hard. Blaming “them”—immigrants, LGBTQ+, welfare recipients—is easy.
Recognizing that blaming is an all-too-human pitfall, let’s
strive to replace its simple satisfaction with those enriching, positive
emotions that emerge through mutual empowerment as we shape and offer solutions
through interaction with others. Millions of Americans are now building that
courage through groups such as those in the broad network Declaration for American
Democracy.
Among the deepest of human needs is power—from the
Latin posse, meaning “to be able.” It is not power over others,
but rather a sense of agency that only democracy can offer. Yet, for most of
us, action requires courage—risking the new by reaching out, asking tough
questions, and doing something we’ve never done before.
Courage, however, is also a human need. Its root lies in
“coeur,” meaning “heart” in French. With the courage to step out comes the joy
of bonding, not from shared finger-pointing but through acting together in
shared problem-solving.
And… in all, it is vastly more satisfying than blaming.
Frances Moore Lappé is the author of 20 books, beginning with the acclaimed "Diet for a Small Planet." Most recently she is the co-author, with Adam Eichen, of the new book, "Daring Democracy: Igniting Power, Meaning, and Connection for the America We Want." Among her numerous previous books are "EcoMind: Changing the Way We Think to Create the World We Want" (Nation Books) and "Democracy's Edge: Choosing to Save Our Country by Bringing Democracy to Life." She is co-founder of the Cambridge, Mass.-based Small Planet Institute.
