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Thursday, March 13, 2025

Chariho parents defend kids against MAGA-nuts

 Chariho parents defend policies to protect transgender, gender diverse, and transitioning students from activist school committee members

Steve Ahlquist

Hundreds of people attended the Chariho Regional District School Committee on Tuesday, held in the Chariho Middle School Auditorium, to defend policies that protect transgender, gender diverse, and transitioning students - as well as library access. 

The membership of the Committee skews right, 7-5, with at least three members politically aligned with Moms for Liberty, described by the Southern Poverty Law Center as “a far-right organization that engages in anti-student inclusion activities and self-identifies as part of the modern parental rights movement. The group grew out of opposition to public health regulations for COVID-19, opposes LGBTQ+ and racially inclusive school curriculum, and has advocated books bans.”

Since the change n Committee leadership, people have been watching and organizing, so when Committee Member Polly Hopkin added and item to Tuesday night’s agenda to refer the Library Media, Title IX Non-Discrimination/Anti-Harassment, and Gender Non-Conforming and Transgender Students policy (as well as other policies) “to the Policy Subcommittee and the School Improvement Teams for review within 30 days” people recognized the culture war aspect of this move.

In the end, the School Committee members voted to not review and potentially weaken the Title IX Non-Discrimination/Anti-Harassment, and Gender Non-Conforming and Transgender Students policies. Public outrage and the democratic process worked. The Library Media Policy will be reviewed, putting library collections at risk, but the Chariho School Committee looks like they have this.

Here’s the video of the School Committee debating the policy review: 

A long preamble: Chariho School District March 11, 2025 Moving the Item - YouTube

As Westerly resident Robert Chiaradio approached the podium for his turn at public comment, he was booed by many of the people attending the Chariho Regional District School Committee meeting, held in the Chariho Middle School Auditorium on Tuesday evening. 

Chiaradio is an anti-trans Christian Nationalist with ties to the far right Washington County Chapter of Moms for Liberty and Rhode Island Center for Freedom and Prosperity. Last year, Chiaradio visited most of the school committees and school boards in the State of Rhode Island, calling for the removal of policies that protect the rights, health and safety of our transgender, gender diverse, and transitioning students.

Committee Chair Louise Dinsmore: Let’s be respectful. We’re not going to tolerate that. Okay? Go ahead Bob.

Robert Chiaradio: Thank you, Madam Chair, members of the committee. Congratulations to all the district athletic champions who were honored at the beginning of the meeting this evening. I’m here to speak about the girls, specifically, tonight. A federal judge invalidated the Biden Administration’s attempted illegal hijacking of Title IX on January 9th. Then President Trump signed two executive orders restoring Title IX to its original intent, which was to protect citizens, especially girls, against discrimination based on sex, not gender identity. These executive orders, which are now federal law...

Audience: No!

Not true!

Chair Dinsmore: Let him speak!

Audience: These aren’t facts!

Chair Dinsmore: [Banging the gavel] Let’s be respectful of the speaker. We gave everybody their time...

Audience: You started the meeting saying we could not say things that weren’t true.

Chair Dinsmore: Listen…

Audience: Those are the rules that you [read].

The audience’s outrage was not simply a reaction to Robert Chiaradio’s bigoted, bullying, and deceptive words. Before public comment began, Committee Chair Louise Dinsmore laid out the ground rules. “The exercise of a citizen’s right carries with it a commensurate responsibility,” said Chair Dinsmore. “Each citizen who makes a public statement has a responsibility to be accurate, present facts, and not gossip or rumors [and] present information based upon personal knowledge, not hearsay. Be considerate and allow others to speak without interruption.”

Back to the meeting:

Chair Dinsmore: I’m going to call for a five minute recess if we can’t get this under control, okay? Let’s be respectful.

Audience: Speak the truth!

He’s not even a resident!

Chair Dinsmore: Continue please...

Robert Chiaradio: Thank you Madam Chair. These executive orders, which are now federal law...

Audience: No!

Executive orders are not laws!

Chair Dinsmore: I’ll call for a motion to adjourn. I will!

Audience: [Large number of people speaking, much crosstalk.]

Chair Dinsmore: Let’s relax. Let him speak.

Audience: You said no false statements!

Chair Dinsmore: Let him speak.

Committee Member Diane Tefft: Motion to adjourn.

Chair Dinsmore: Do we have a second?

Committee Member Polly Hopkins: Second.

Audience: We need to pass a budget!

Cowards!

Unknown Committee Member: Have the police remove them.

Committee Member Craig Louzon: Hey folks, listen. I know it’s not comfortable for some of you, and it’s not for me, but let the man at least speak. You can disagree with him all you want. You can follow him out the door and disagree with him. Just let him speak…

Audience: Don’t do that.

Committee Member Louzon: ...so we can move on to the business of our kids.

Robert Chiaradio: I wouldn’t advise that, by the way.

Committee Member Louzon: I don’t care for your rhetoric, sir.

Chair Dinsmore: I’m going to ask my fellow committee men and women if they would withdraw their motion to adjourn and their second please. We have business to discuss tonight. I would like to discuss this business respectfully. We have a lot to do this evening. I understand everybody’s point of view. We’ve given folks the opportunity to speak this evening and I would like to move forward with this meeting, so I’m going to ask my colleagues if they will withdraw their motion to adjourn and withdraw their second, please.

Committee Member Tefft: I am now withdrawing my motion to adjourn.

Chair Dinsmore: Thank you. Okay, we are going to move forward. Mr. Chiaradio, will you continue? You have two minutes. Please be concise, and we will listen to you respectfully. Thank you.

Robert Chiaradio: Thank you Madam Chair. These executive orders keep biological males out of female sports and private spaces and eliminate the mandated use of pronouns by teachers and staff. You got your letter recently from the Rhode Island Center of Freedom and Prosperity, which I won’t go into because of time.

Instead of heeding the bogus advice of the Attorney General, this committee needs to do two things: Change your Title IX policy. Kids confused with their sexual identity will be protected by other means, just not Title IX. People need to understand that. Change your Title IX policy as Westerly, North Kingstown, Barrington, and others have done, to President Trump’s 2020 ruling, which protects all people against discrimination based on sex, not gender identity. That’s Title IX exactly the way it was intended in 1972.

Protect our Girls. You need to dump the RIDE trans guidance policy, which also violates federal law, and toss Neronha’s letter in the trash. You cannot continue to place our girls in unsafe, uncomfortable, and unlawful situations. Oh my. In spite of urgings from myself and others over the last few years, you continue to sexualize Chariho’s kids...

Audience: [Derisive laughter]

Robert Chiaradio: ...continue to place Chariho’s girls in unsafe, unlawful, and unfair situations, all because of some sick agenda and the gutless lack of courage by the leadership of this district.

Audience: You are sick and you are sexualizing them.

He doesn’t live here!

Robert Chiaradio: Now, you have no choice. Comply now.

Chair Dinsmore: I’m calling for order in this auditorium.

Robert Chiaradio: Comply now or face some very unpleasant consequences from … the loss of federal funds, etc. Your fascination with gender identity is over. Thank you.

Audience: Bye Bob!

[Boos and jeers from the audience.]

Later in the meeting, Attorney Jennifer Wood, who has practiced education law in Rhode Island for over 40 years, including 10 years as Chief Legal Counsel at the Rhode Island Department of Education (RIDE), clarified how executive orders work in reality, and how the law presently stands in Rhode Island.

Do Trump's executive orders have the force of law?

Jennifer Wood: There’s been a lot of discussion lately about whether Presidential Executive Orders issued since January 20th require or compel school districts to revise policies that protect students from discrimination and require a safe and inclusive learning environment for all students. I am here tonight to tell you that executive orders cannot compel policy changes for your district and that federal and state laws and regulations that have not changed since January 20th prohibit you from reducing or eliminating anti-discrimination policies.

These legally required policies support safe and inclusive schools for your students. A presidential executive order is an instruction to federal agencies as to how to manage their operations. Executive orders cannot change statutes or regulations. Only Congress, the General Assembly, or delegated agencies can do those things.

Since the turn of this century, Rhode Island law has prohibited discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. We are the second in the nation to do so and I’m very proud of that. The United States Supreme Court has recognized that discrimination on this basis also violates federal law.

You may hear that some federal courts have held that Title IX does not protect transgender students from discrimination. However, these rulings were in other states. The Federal Appeals Court in Boston interprets these laws for Rhode Island. That court has ruled that transgender students are protected from unequal treatment and the federal court in New Hampshire, which is in our appeals court district, has ruled that Title IX protects transgender students from discrimination. 

These first circuit interpretations of law are binding in Rhode Island unless and until the United States Supreme Court rules otherwise. In summary, federal and state law in 2025 protects transgender students, and the State Board of Education regulations, which have the full force and effect of law in Rhode Island, require that your policies reflect those protections. Please do not reconsider legally mandated policies that protect students from discrimination and harassment. They provide all of your students with a safe and inclusive learning environment.

Public Comment:

Public comment came before the Committee took up the item. Here’s the video: Chariho School District - March 11, 2025 - Public Comment

“While this public comment session is taking place before hearing what this body's intentions are with policies such as Title IX, anti-harassment and inclusion protections and the school's current policies for gender non-conforming and transgender students, I want to make it abundantly clear where I, a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, and many other people in this community stand on this,” said Jake Blanchet, 2007 Chariho High School Graduate and ne of the original founding members of the Gay/Straight Alliance in that school.

“While we have not heard what the plans of this committee are yet, with the Chairperson and other members of this committee signing on to the Moms for Liberty pledge, we can assume they aren't for the betterment of those they protect now. The Moms for Liberty political group has worked to ban books, censor curriculum that covers LGBTQ+, critical race theory, and women's rights nationwide.

“Madam Chairperson and members of this committee who have also signed this pledge, I speak directly to you now: In the March 4th Health and Wellness subcommittee meeting, the goals were to expand community and school resources to support mental health. LGBTQ+ youth are four times more likely to commit suicide. Taking away protections for those who need it does not align with those goals. Taking away protections for those who need it is not kind, it is not respectful and it is not in the best interest of all students. You said their safety and wellbeing are at the forefront of everything you do. Take this opportunity to stay true to that.”

Spencer is a 31 year old man who was bullied and harassed out of Chariho High School because he was transgender. His bravery in speaking out was inspirational. “…if you take [these protections] away or consider to taking them away, kids like me will suffer. What if your child is like me? Maybe they don't know yet. Maybe they're watching you, wondering if this will safe place to be themselves. At the very least, tonight has given me the closure I didn't know I needed for 17 years. I just hope sharing my story helps prevent another student from going through what I did.”

There is data that shows that weakening protections for transgender kids increases bullying, worsens educational outcomes, and increases the risk of suicide and substance use.

“This committee is going to do what they want to do. So this message is for children like Spencer,” said State Representative Megan Cotter. “To all the trans and non-binary kids, kids who feel different, kids who are bullied, and kids who eat lunch alone that are watching this at home right now, you are seen, you are valued and you are not alone. No policy can erase who you are or take away your right to exist as your true authentic self. No matter what happens in this room tonight, there are so many of us that love you, see you, fighting for you, standing for you, and making sure you have a future where you are safe, respected, and free to be who you are. Keep being you. We have your back.”

“Any changes made to these policies will impact only a handful of students in a very detrimental way, which is discrimination in its most basic form,” said Janine Harrington, lifelong Chariho resident, taxpayer, and parent with a teen currently in the high school. “The Chariho School Committee is charged with fostering an educational environment that is safe and free from discrimination for all students regardless of sex, sexual orientation, gender identity [applause] and to reduce the stigmatization of and improve the educational integration of transgender and gender nonconforming students. This is the committee's duty regardless of personal political affiliations or agendas or personal ideology or opinion. Policy review is unnecessary as there have never been any recorded instances of issues caused by TG/NC children at Chariho. There is no evidence to suggest there will be.

“However, there is an abundance of evidence that these policies need to stay intact. 42% of TG/NC youth report frequently being called names at school or being excluded. 64% encounter bullying and over half report that they do not participate in activities out of fear of discrimination. Approximately one in four TG/NC youth experience some form of sexual assault in restrooms at schools where restroom and locker room use is restricted compared to those without restrictions. States that passed anti-trans laws aimed at minors saw suicide attempts increased by 72%. Dangerous restrictions, being bullied by peers as well as adults, and being singled out by school districts contributes to this percentage.

“According to the NIH, gender identity acceptance was associated with lower odds of past year suicide attempts.

“A wise person once said, love your neighbor as you love yourself. That is acceptance. I encourage each of you to get to know a gender non-conforming person. Let them educate you. This is their own personal journey, not one that's up for public debate. I urge this committee to tread lightly and act intentionally. What you do next could very deeply impact those you are charged to protect.

“Gender nonconforming people have always been with us. They will not be erased. To those listening tonight, we see you, and trans rights are human rights.”

Dozens of people spoke out at the meeting. All but two who spoke on the issue of transgender, gender diverse, and transitioning students were in favor of keeping the protections as they are. Some samples:

“Let's be clear: attacks on LGBTQIA+ students, especially transgender and non-binary students, are not just about them. They're about controlling society. They are a deliberate effort to force people into rigid, oppressive gender roles and erase those who do not conform. This is about power, restriction, and pushing an agenda that has no place in the school system meant to serve all students. This should alarm every parent, especially those of LGBTQIA+ students and students with disabilities. If policies that protect the most vulnerable are weakened or removed, what comes next? Who will be the next target?”

“The Chariho School Mission has two sentences,” said Dr. Lisa McCain. “The second one is "to create a safe and supportive environment where all students are treated with kindness and respect." Anti-trans discrimination, in fact, any discriminatory policy, threatens this mission. Being LGBTQ is not a choice anymore than I have a choice to be born with blue eyes. It is not a choice.

“We know that trans students are bullied more than their cisgender students. 38% of trans students are bullied in school and that's just in person. The rate is 12% for cisgender students. We know that bullying leads to decreased attendance, decreased academic success, and decreased overall health. I can vouch that. In 20+ years of practicing in this community as a family physician, I have seen the effects that this has on students, especially our LGBTQ students.

“A sense of community, school connections, respect, and understanding helps all students achieve academic and social success. Our current climate of derogatory and discriminatory talk and actions will have a negative effect on all students, not just LGBTQ. It is hard to learn in a negative environment. It is hard to learn when your classmates or yourself are in fear. We as adults need to act as role models. We need to put into practice treating all people with respect. As stated in our mission statement, we need to be the leaders in our community.”

“I can tell you as a parent of a female athlete, I fear no transgender person.

“I want to remind the committee that federal law and state law trumps - that's a funny word - trumps executive orders. We don't have king. We don't have a dictatorship.”

“Going back to what somebody else said about pronouns: Pronouns are just part of respect. You're going to call somebody they would like to be called. If your name is Robert and you want to be called Bob, then you call him Bob.”

“Our children don't feel threatened. They very much feel like they're accepting their student body for whoever they may be. And isn't that the most American thing you can do? To choose your own identity in this world? I think that is what liberty and freedom is.”

“I'm 70. I get a little freaked out. No offense to anybody here, but if I see two guys kissing, I'm not comfortable - but that's my problem. They're not hurting anybody. This is essentially church law. This is from religious people who think they know who God is and nobody else does. This is not a church. This is not your church. This is a public school where everybody is welcome. All faiths are welcome, all ideas are welcome. And to try to shut them off is about as un-American as I can think of, and I'm not that great a patriot.”

“You have made children afraid,” said Catherine Giusti, a former Chariho School Committee Chair. “I cannot believe that that is your goal, but if that was your goal, you have accomplished it. I talked to my student tonight and asked her, ‘Are kids working about this?’ and she said, ‘No, mom. Kids are talking about biology class and they're talking about the Skills USA competition and they're talking about Italian homework. They're not worried about who is using the bathroom next to them.’

“This is an adult manufactured problem. I filed several APRA requests, which I'm happy to share with you... There have been no assaults perpetrated in a Chariho bathroom by transgender students. Zero. But there were, by boys. So maybe start the conversation with boys. You can't erase transgender students. You can't erase transgender people. They exist whether you understand them or not.

“Finally, for those of you who are part of Moms for Liberty, I'm a mom too. Leave my kids alone.”

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